Statistics for online dating
He is likely to be 49 years old, 5’9, balding, and earns an average of 40K per year! Do people think the other is not going to notice these differences when they meet face to face?
Do they think their marvelous personality is going to override their lies about their appearance and income?
As awesome as that is, what happens when something goes wrong, and they aren’t your match at all?
One of the biggest and most common problem that arises is lying.
Ladies, I understand that you are lonely and would like companionship, but you need to educate yourselves, and take precautions! As exciting as the attention may be, you are NOT in a race to meet someone. A lot of people post photos of themselves anywhere from 5-20 years ago! If you want to talk sooner, get their number, and block yours before calling them. Before meeting them for the first time, leave their name, phone number, and meeting place with a friend. When meeting someone for the first time, and possibly the 2nd and 3rd date too, it will minimize potential danger if you are surrounded by people. You may be trapped and not free to leave if becoming uncomfortable.
Compromising your safety and/or life does not need to be the price to pay for a date. If any serious problem arises, they (and you) can be tracked down easier and faster. Being in their car gives them all of the control of where you are going and when you are returning home. When you start dating someone seriously, remove your profile from the site and ask them to do so as well.
Aside from the issue of lying, lies a worse scenario.
Although most women are seeking someone online to have a great relationship with and enhance their lives, many men are seeking women for other reasons.
This article was not written for the purpose of scaring anyone, but was written to inform you of the realities of online dating that the promoters of the dating sites are not telling you.They are often times marry to several women at the same time, because this is how they make their living.When a person seems too good to be true, you may help put your mind at ease by running a background check on them.Studies are also show that women are having sex sooner than later, and are not being safe about that either. Lying about who you are is no good way to start a relationship. Many men are listed on these sites in several states, and are playing games with numerous women. Continue using email as the form of correspondence between you and the person you are getting to know for longer than you think you should, before giving them your phone number.With statistics like these, online dating appears scary! You are only asking for trouble if you mislead men, by having an overly sexy name they are associating you with, such as bustybabe69, or hot4u2nitexxx. When they find out you have lied, they may be furious, which gives you a bad situation to deal with. Ask for as many recent photos of them as you can, and share yours too. You don’t want to have to change your number often if you start to get uncomfortable or harassed by this person. Don’t have this “stranger” pick you up in their car.